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Hypnotherapy-any experiences please?

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FuriousGeorge · 15/02/2008 17:25

I am trying to get a grip on a phobia/irrational response which I've suffered from for years.It is gradually getting worse & I'm determined to do something about it before the fear takes over completely.

I know my reactions are over the top,I know why I react the way I do,due to an experience years ago,but don't know how to stop it.

I'm wondering if hypnosis/hypnotherapy would help? I have tried CBT,which had no effect at all,relaxation tapes don't help either,I just can't 'switch off'.My brain obviously 'leartnt' the irrational response,now I need to unlearn it.

I'm going to have to tell dh how bad things are.I've pretty much hidden it from him,he thinks it is a mild dislike,so that is a scary thought.

Any advice or experiences,anyone?
Thanks very much.

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Aimsmum · 15/02/2008 21:03

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FuriousGeorge · 16/02/2008 08:44

Thankyou Aimsmum.I'm really glad it helped you.

It's good to know that you know others whom it has worked for too.I'm determined to give it a go.Just need to raise the subject with dh & find someone - there seem to be a lot of different qualifications out there.

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Aimsmum · 16/02/2008 11:54

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evertheoptimist · 17/02/2008 13:44

Hi - I tried hypnotherapy for IBS and it had some success (mainly in terms of just getting you to relax deeply and prioritise problems; manage anxiety etc) but do watch out for charlatans as anyone can advertise to be one. Get someone with a proper background in psychology or psychiatry. Enjoy!

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/02/2008 13:51

FuriousGeorge, I've also had hypnotherapy for anxiety - about 4 sessions with a cd to listen to - I would say that it helped,though I am still an anxious person...I do think it's worth a go... my sessions were £60 each btw. If you do go check out the qualifications. My BIL is a hypnotherapist and he found my one for me,basing it on his own qualifications...hang on and I'll check what they are...

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/02/2008 13:53

BIL has D.HypMNCH MSTT

FuriousGeorge · 17/02/2008 18:06

Thankyou all.It is a real minefield trying to find out who to trust.The one nearest me is IHA & GHR registered,but doesn't seem to have any psychiatric background though.She has been practising since 1993 & charges £40 per session.I am going to ring her tomorrow to discuss it further.

There seem to be several registers or associations that hypnotists belong to,but I don't know how to tell the difference between them-it certainly is confusing.I'll perhaps ring around a few more before deciding.

Thanks again.

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MaryAnnSingleton · 17/02/2008 19:09

shall I ask my BIL what you should look for ?

dividedself · 17/02/2008 19:17

Hi

I've had hypnotherapy for dealing with depression/behavioural/relationship stuff. I do have a phobia but I wasn't dealing with this at the session.

My therapist's web address is www.calmblueocean.co.uk/dianamartin.html

She is well regarded and works with Women's Aid.She may not be near you but yo can check her qualifications against others you may look at

London zoo do a spiders hypnotherapy session thing if it's that

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/02/2008 21:03

FuriousGeorge - this is from my BIL -

Any member of the National Council for Hypnotherapy will be suitably qualified. If she goes to their website she'll be able to search for a therapist by area and/or by specialism. Here's a link:-

www.hypnotherapists.org.uk

FuriousGeorge · 18/02/2008 16:03

Thankyou Dividedself and MaryAnnSingleton.It isn't spiders,Dividedself,but thankyou.Did you find hypnotherapy has helped you?

Pleas thank your BIL for me,with regard to the website MaryAnnSingleton,I have found a chap about 6 miles away & hopefully will go for a free assessment on Wednesday morning.I feel a bit odd about facing up to it all,but am really,really hoping it will help me learn to deal with things better.

I'll keep you posted.

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MaryAnnSingleton · 19/02/2008 08:07

Good luck FuriousGeorge, and yes, keep us posted on how you get on...

MaryAnnSingleton · 21/02/2008 11:21

how was the assessment Furious ?

FuriousGeorge · 21/02/2008 19:35

Hello!

Sorry,meant to post last night,but never got around to it.It went really well,he was a lovely chap,with years of experience & used to work for the University & police,helping people who had undergone trauma ect.

He went through a few questionaires with me,and said that the root of my anxiety,stems from being severely bullied at school.I said that I never really gave it a thought these days,it was 28 years ago,but he said that he could tell from my body language & expressions,that,deep down,I hadn't really gotten over it.It is true,I suppose,I can't talk about it or think about it without crying,so just blocked it off ever since.He says my phobia isn't severe,but stems from anxiety(which is absolutely true).Anyway,he said 1 session would be enough to help me deal with the phocbia,but to stop the anxiety that caused it from continuing,would take up to 6 sessions,in which he will teach me how to hypnotise myself.

I'd love to not be so anxious,so decided to go for the whole thing & do it properly-no point in half measures I suppose.I can change my mind at any time if I'm not happy.The cost was a lot less than I'd expected,£40 per session.I thought it would be double that,so that was a relief.I start next week.

Thanks for thinking of me!

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/02/2008 19:45

sounds good to me - really hope it goes well - I enjoyed my sessions very much,I must say. Do report back !

Dalex · 22/02/2008 18:37

I had hypnotherapy for a phobia a few years ago. Only had one session with great success - Canadian lady. Sounds bizarre but took me mentally to an old theatre where she replayed the time I became phobic! Handed me balloons as queues for all the things i need when scared e.g. a blue balloon for cold as I need to feel cold. I sound a real weirdo when I read this back but now, when I go into panic mode, my brain instantly hands me balloons which make me cope. It's well worth doing.

FuriousGeorge · 24/02/2008 11:41

Thank you MaryAnnSingleton,I'm glad you enjoyed your sessions.It has stopped me feeling so apprehensive about mine.

Dalex,thank you for posting.It has really reassured me,hearing tht it worked so well for you!Especially the bit about youir brain instantly 'telling' you how to cope.I'm looking forward to being less anxious & dealing with my phobia now.

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Martha200 · 27/02/2008 20:29

I had hypnotherapy a couple of years ago.. yes it really helped.. and even now I use what I learnt in my 4 sessions now, to stop me from repeating the old behaviour.

My advice... talk/approach a good handful of them and go with who you feel most comfortable with. (my sessions I was living abroad for) what I also liked was that a month later he had me back for a follow up/see how things were.. and I thought that was sensible.. not sure if all therapists do this though??

Yes, it is expensive.. and I believe it works if you realise that it does involve you doing some work too.. it takes the therapist and the client to do their 'bits' so to speak e.g I had statements to think about each week, and each week the sentences grew.. and I had to repeat them.. I did this religiously.

sorry got to cut short wailing baby to deal with!

FuriousGeorge · 29/02/2008 16:11

Hi again.The dd's are busily painting,so have snatched a few minutes to let you know how it went.

It was really just a 'starter' session,for him to see how I reacted to the treatment.First he put on a cd,got me to sit down,shut my eyes & relax whilst he hypnotised me.Whilst I was 'under',he made positive suggestions & statements to me.After a while,he bought me back out.It is very hard to describe,almost like that stage you get just before you fall asleep-you feel completely relaxed,are concious of everything,but don't want to open your eyes & come back to reality.We had a chat about how I felt about it,what had happened ect,then he showed me how to hypnotise myself.

I was very surprised that it worked & that I could do it.We did the ballon thing that Dalex mentioned.I am terrible at letting my mind wander,but did pretty well and was very pleased,and apparently,letting your mind wander isn't a problem,because it is the subconcious mind,not the concious one that matters in hypnosis.

I have to practise at home before I go back next week.I tried the self hypnosis whilst lying in bed that night & felt I was getting somewhere.I then tried another way of self hypnosis that he had shown me & promptly fell asleep.

I've got a cd to listen to as well,but that is proving tricky,because I am never on my own in a quiet place.But I plan to lock myself away in the bedroom tonight & give it a whirl.

My phobia is still as bad as ever & I had a panicky attack today,but at least I could tell myself that I'm working on getting rid of it now.

Thanks for all the kind comments & suggestions posted.

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MaryAnnSingleton · 29/02/2008 17:28

oh well done Furious George- it sounds as though you're doing very well - sounds much like my experiences of hypnotherapy too. Do keep in touch !

MaryAnnSmotheredinchocolate · 17/03/2008 16:34

BUMPING THIS because there's something on hypnotherapy on BBC2 at 9pm tonight...my BIL - a hypnotherapist - reckons that the presenter is a bit of a sceptic so it won't necessarily show hypnotherapy in a brilliant light...worth a watch though.

MaryAnnSmotheredinchocolate · 17/03/2008 17:20

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FuriousGeorge · 17/03/2008 21:21

Thankyou! I read about it in the paper & planned to watch it,but dh has hogged the t.v.

I'll check to see if its repeated another day or time.It sounds intriguing.

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ara · 17/03/2008 22:02

FuriousGeorge - I have had hypnotherapy twice for a severe phobia of injections, blood tests in particular, after having viral meningitis as a 5 and then a 6 year old. I had two extremely bad experiences while having blood taken, and have suffered really irrational responses (panic attacks, black outs, hysteria - even a fully blown fit once)to injections ever since (I am now 30).

The first time (NHS, about 9 years ago) it didn't work at all, but i don't think i took it seriously as a therapy so that could have been in part down to me.

The second time (private, £40/session as I knew I would have to have booking bloods taken due to becoming pregnant this time last year) I felt as though I made great progress during the first few sessions and then slipped back into having panic responses etc, and when it came to the crunch that didn't work either, and I ended up having my blood taken under general anaesthetic which I was deeply ashamed about, as I knew it was a risk to my baby.

I know how utterly debilitating something like this can be - I'm normally a pragmatic, capable person but this issue has plagued me for nearly 25 years!

After the general anaesthetic I was referred to a mother and baby mental health unit and had meetings with a consultant clinical psychologist who spent a number of sessions just questioning me about the intricacies of my fear, and then tried to bring them together into a series of goals which we were supposed to tackle one at a time (starting with the smallest first).

To cut a long story short, she basically said that I needed to develop some positive memories as I had a 'learned' response due to previous experiences, which wouldn't change till I acquired some new ones. We started by watching and old training video for nurses which went through the process bit by bit. I couldn't even watch it to start with without overheating and almost passing out.

After sitting observing me trying to watch it, she then taught me a technique (I'm sorry - I don't know what it is called or who devised it) which involved rhythmically and firmly tapping the area on the side of one hand (underneath your pinkie), followed by the soft parts on the side of your head by your eyes (using both hands), then your forehead on the two points where your eyebrows begin, underneath both eyes on the bony part, just underneath the nose, just underneath your bottom lip and finally just below your collarbone at the top of your breast. Sorry for the long list, I would draw you a diagram if I could!!

Apparently this technique has been used on people who have been traumatised (seemingly it has been used on soldiers and has had good results).

The first time I did it I felt quite self conscious and was v sceptical, but did think it produced a bizarre feeling of mild 'elation' - is the only was I can describe it. It just seemed to lift my spirits a bit!

Anyway, I practised it (not reciting affirmations as was suggested to me, but while trying to watch the video), and after about a month of preparing myself I actually willingly had an injection without any adverse reaction for the first time in 25 yrs. I'm not sure how it worked - it didn't feel wholly like a diversionary thing iyswim.

Sorry for the HUUUUUUUUGE post, but this is the only thing that has worked for me - I've had 6 injections now, after a minor slip back into anxiety about them (anti d's during and after pregnancy and a spinal and canula during labour). This is something I thought I would never achieve. I haven't had a blood test yet but I'm continuing to work with this fabulous doctor ad now think it is not outwith the realms of possibility that I will be able to shake this dreadful fear.

In my experience hypnotherapy was a good thing in terms of teaching me relaxation techniques, but it was simply not enough of a weapon against a deeply manifest problem. I would highly recommend asking your GP for a referral and doing a bit of research on clinical methods of tackling these things.

FuriousGeorge · 02/04/2008 17:23

Well,I'm feeling a bit down about my treatment today.Up until a few weeks back,I'd felt that things were improving,but over Easter,I was exposed to the thing I'm phobic about a lot, & despite having religiously done the exercises set,felt even more panicky than I had before.

I feel awful,because I'd worked so hard,even though it has been difficult & should have started to feel less phobic by now,but I don't.The guy said that it was because I am continually being exposed to the thing I'm trying to deal with & as it is making me panic,I have gone backwards rather than forwards.He has taught me a short term tip for stopping the panicky feelings arising,which should tide me over until we have finished the course of sessions.But I seem to have lost confidence now & a little voice inside me keeps saying 'What if it doesn't work?'

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