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Still no motivation 3 months after breakdown

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DearMotherOfCod · 03/03/2023 11:25

I'm quite concerned about my sister but I don't know if I'm being over the top or have a valid concern.
She's 27, no DC and has a long distance boyfriend. She's signed off work following a mental break down end of last year. Her mood seems stable but she's hardly leaving the flat, she hardly speaks to anyone, doesn't meet up with friends or do any of her hobbies. She has a cleaner once a week which is when she goes out for a walk, does everything online. She seems calm but also empty iykwim. No motivation to do anything.
I don't think she's taking any medication but she's in bi weekly therapy.

I know this is a hard question but how long after a break down can you expect the person to get back to 'normal'? She seems a shell of herself, no interest in the future. I don't even know how to speak to her about it because I don't want to upset her. She's doing so well in that she's eating normally again and seems to be sober but her days are spent in bed unless she has to go somewhere she's just staying in. She used to be active, doing something every day so this is not about being an introvert.

Is there anything I could do to help her? What is the life like after a mental breakdown? Is 3 months still early days? Just any experiences of this would be so helpful. Thank you x

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OldTinHat · 03/03/2023 11:43

Imo it's still very early days for her. I had a breakdown 6yrs ago and still struggle to get out of bed. I've recently been diagnosed with psychosis and have weekly sessions with a psychotherapist and am on medication.

My advice would be to just be there, don't pressure her. That will mean the world to her when she is so vulnerable.

You sound lovely, OP. You're doing a great job.

DearMotherOfCod · 04/03/2023 07:51

@OldTinHat Thanks for sharing your experience and sorry you're still finding some mornings difficult. I see that 3 months is still very early I just wasn't aware of how much it could impact a person as I'd not seen it this close to home before. Thank you for your support and hope your health continues to improve.

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