My partner is becoming more verbally aggressive with his anger.
His reasons are irrational and unpredictable.
Hes never been even close to getting physical towards me until I got home from work yesterday to find him raging & swearing that the dinner had got cold .
I explained that it took longer to drive back due to the many temporary lights/ road works. Still barely through the front door with my shoes still on , he suddenly grabbed my neck with one hand ,up against the wall and opened the kitchen drawer with the other hand, then held a large bladed knife at my forehead.
I kept still, silent & calm. until he retreated still shouting & swearing at me.
A didn't react so as to not provoke . I backed gently out the door and ran to my car, with him following. i booked into a local hotel for the night.
At 5am he called, crying about a monster he is and that i didn't deserve that. He kept saying he was sorry and didn't mean any of it & that he loves me so much.
I barely responded , saying best to just get some sleep.
I've returned today , hes acting like nothing happened.
From my perspective I'm a bit numb and don't know what to do, if anything?
He's been on Citalopram for almost a year and now Sertraline for a few months.