Getting an adult diagnosis for Aspergers/ Autism

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Has anyone had experience of paying for diagnosis for Aspergers? My DS 20 is struggling and after many years of feeling that he may fit the criteria ( I definitely do feel he has Aspergers ) his move to university has highlighted his struggles and I think given him the push to find out why he feels as he does. After having a good initial few months he has struggled since returning after Christmas and I think he has been making alot to fit in and using alcohol to help.

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My husband got a diagnosis when he was 42. It’s very common for people with high functioning autism to get diagnosed as adults. In any event whether it’s Asperger’s or not he needs help, something isn’t working and alcohol is never the answer. Best of luck.

Has he tried his GP? I’d try that first. Asperger’s isn’t really a term that’s used any more, it isn’t given as a diagnosis, the diagnosis is autism.

Your ds may find that the nhs route is fine but if not there are many private routes. Online providers can assess via video call.

Asperger's doesn't officially exist any more as a diagnosis. Also there is no treatment. But it is still usually helpful to get a diagnosis of ASD as it helps a person to understand themselves, form a positive identity around their problems.
A GP would be the first step to find out what the NHS pathway is in your area.
This article might also be helpful https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/signs-of-aspergers-in-adults.htm

My brother is 54 and just got his diagnosis through the NHS. He started with a visit to his GP, who referred him. The waiting time for adults being diagnosed was much shorter than it is for children, so that's a positive.
Having the diagnosis has helped him get support at work when needed, so definitely worth doing.