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Suicidal? Depressed?

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hopelesscc · 22/01/2023 23:57

Please knock some sense into me. Life has got really stressful. I have a lot of things going on and I have no one to talk to particularly at the moment. I'm autistic and my threshold for stressful things going on is pretty low to begin with. I usually take sertraline for anxiety but when things are out of the ordinary plus having been ill, I get out of the habit and it's now been probably three weeks since I took it. I'm on a high dose usually.

At the moment things feel bleak and utterly hopeless and pointless. I'm not usually depressed but at the moment it seems that's what I'm experiencing. I feel completely overwhelmed and my threshold for stress is now incredibly low but my job is extremely stressful. I've never before felt like I might do something irreversible to hurt myself without actually wanting to. I want to get past it. I want to be able to cope again. I desperately don't want to have anyone know I'm like this.

But at this same time I'm scared. I feel out of control. I'm either numb or crying my eyes out. I know how I'd do it. I've thought about it since teenagerhood far too much and had a friend end their life the same way last year. I get obsessive intrusive thoughts about it at the best of times.

I just. I have no one to talk to and ive messed up to get to this stage. I just want to express it and hopefully someone is out there to hear.
Mg plan currently is: I'm in bed, going to try to sleep. Sleep is terrible at the moment.
In the morning I am going to take my damn pill and go to work and my other commitments then I'm going back to bed.

I'm also worried because I feel like this now and each time I've started on sertraline I've had really strong intrusive thoughts of suicide and I'm worried that it will initially make things worse after a few weeks accidental break.

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EleanorLucyG · 23/01/2023 00:27

Your plan for tomorrow is too ambitious. You're on a high dose you said? You need to check with a doctor before taking them again. You've had 3wks off them and with some meds taking a break then going back straight onto a high dose without getting up to that dose gradually over a few weeks, could amount to an overdose and cause you harm. You need an emergency appointment with the GP due to your suicidal feelings and plan, they can't refuse you. You'll need to call in sick to work and whatever other commitments you have, you're in no fit state to do them. Whatever the consequences, the world isn't going to end because you take some time off, but your life might end if you don't.

EleanorLucyG · 23/01/2023 15:23

You ok today OP? Well I know "ok" is the wrong word but you know what I mean.

WhatHaveIFound · 23/01/2023 15:29

Honestly if you're normally on a high dose of sertraline, going cold turkey is not a good idea. You need a GP appointment and asap, possibly restart taking it if you can't get one soon.

My DD tried weaning herself off it last year and ended up in a worst state. She was only on 50mg at that time but stopping it should be under medical supervision.

hopelesscc · 23/01/2023 19:13

EleanorLucyG · 23/01/2023 00:27

Your plan for tomorrow is too ambitious. You're on a high dose you said? You need to check with a doctor before taking them again. You've had 3wks off them and with some meds taking a break then going back straight onto a high dose without getting up to that dose gradually over a few weeks, could amount to an overdose and cause you harm. You need an emergency appointment with the GP due to your suicidal feelings and plan, they can't refuse you. You'll need to call in sick to work and whatever other commitments you have, you're in no fit state to do them. Whatever the consequences, the world isn't going to end because you take some time off, but your life might end if you don't.

You're absolutely right.
I did cut one of my commitments at least. I'm ok

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EleanorLucyG · 23/01/2023 22:45

Glad you're ok OP. Do you have a plan of how to get through the rest of the week?

hopelesscc · 25/01/2023 21:00

I have a three day weekend thank god. One more day.

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mamailla · 25/01/2023 22:22

Hi OP I hope you're okay 💕 sending love

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