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Bipolar diagnosis for addict. Please give me some guidance

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Nothing2lose · 13/12/2022 23:10

Going to try and remain anonymous here so might change some details and also it’s a very very long story cut short.

Family member has obvious signs of bipolar. It also runs in the family sadly. They’ve been diagnosed as a poly addict- severe addictions to everything and anything. When on a manic episode (of course I’m self diagnosing this) they have battled with gambling, infidelity, serious drug abuse and alcohol abuse. It is destroying everyone around them and after these episodes they’re so low they are suicidal.

Manic episodes are so self destructive they’ve then become suicidal which is beyond hard to witness/be part of and it’s so hard to help.. they’re at risk of losing absolutely everything if it happens again and some sort of help isn’t sought. It’s just knowing what. Unfortunately after the manic low, they then don’t seem to action some of the things they say they’ll do and then they have a stable period, another high and the circle begins again.

The nhs is on its knees and said it can take 6 months to a year- they don’t have this long and can afford private but what help and where is what’s apparently stopping them “as they want to find the best support” (referring to family member and their partner).

can anyone recommend London based physchiatrists?

Also is there anyone I can speak to for support for myself. It’s really tough as a family member and I’ve nobody who truly understands or can help me understand

happy to discuss why I believe they’re bipolar, just extremely tired and thought I’d start with the basic explanation.

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coffeeisthebest · 15/12/2022 15:34

Can you afford your own private therapy? I would go for someone integrative if possible and take yourself along. I have a family member with bipolar and they have struggled to engage with therapy although they are well medicated and relatively stable. I don't know any psychiatrists to recommend, I would say it's important to keep yourself stable, ie don't drown in someone else's problems.

Nothing2lose · 16/12/2022 17:00

Thank you for this advice. Private is an option but they’re saying that they want to find the right person and it’s too close to Christmas.

just wary of too much time passing that is all

thank you, it’s hard to not get weighed down with all this

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