I cannot stand this much more.
Dh was overweight for yrs despite losing his dm to heart attack v young.He takes no responsibility for himself.
He had a heart attack too,a major one,carried on being unhealthy.
Lost his job and relied on me heavily to help him find one.
He only deals with issues when they actually arise and has no foresight.
Dreadful checking cough for months eventually resolved after many tests and nagging by me.
Shaves or washes when reminded to.
Now he has no transport to work after I repeatedly advised him to look for a newer car which he didn't now it is costing him dearly.
I feel like he is so unmotivated to do anything it is a burden to me.
I recently changed jobs as I was slogging 13 hr days however I didn't have to deal with him.
G p suggested counselling or Ads which he wasn't keen on.
I'm trying hard not to get sucked into his negative way of thinking as I've just dragged myself away from depression.
Am I wrong to leave him to it.?