Have been plucking up the courage to post this for weeks... I am so fed up with having no sex drive due to ADs. I have been on them on and off for many years and have reluctantly concluded that I need to stay on them for the foreseeable future. A change of AD isn't really an option as I have tried many different kinds and these seem to suit me best in terms of other side effects (and anyway they all affect your sex life in some way or other IME). I love DP and would fancy him if I fancied anyone, but I have absolutely no interest in having sex with him. It wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't that I can remember having a very healthy sex drive before ADs (and in the brief periods when I've been off them) and I hate the thought of never having that again. It's crap for DP too and to be honest I woudn't blame him if he looked elsewhere although I would be devastated. Is there any answer to this? Any advice greatly appreciated.