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My GP is leaving and I don’t know how to cope

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ibis17 · 20/07/2022 07:34

I have just found out that my amazing GP is about to move to a new practice. I have various mental health diagnosis and in the 20+ years I have been in the system for these, she has been by far the most constant, kind and insightful support (I have been seeing her for 4 years).

I had a mc earlier in the year and am now at the start of a (very anxious!) new pregnancy. I had assumed she would be there to guide me through this.

she has been really nice keeping me up to date with her plans and we are having a final conversation on Friday.

my question is that I’m not sure how/ how much to communicate with her my panic/ feeling of loss at her going and if/ how to ask to stay in contact or have a transition meeting after my first scan. I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable/ come across as weirdly needy or stress her when I imagine the move will be a big thing in her life, but I also feel totally out of control. I had been managing to control my anxiety over the new pregnancy, but it’s as if this news is the final straw and all the emotions I’d been keeping a lid on are overwhelming me.

Her new practice is only about 25 minutes away, but I am technically outside its catchment area… I also wondered if anyone had heard of a surgery accepting new GPs previous patients if they are from another area?

sorry for the long post!

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HerbErtlinger · 20/07/2022 07:38

I moved out of the catchment area of my GP surgery and was told I needed to register with a new more local surgery. I was pregnant and hugely anxious and asked if I could remain as I had good support from the midwife at my current and wanted continuity of care. They got back to me after a couple of days and agreed to let me remain and I've stayed since.

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