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can't separate from my partner :(

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girlshelpxx · 04/06/2022 19:43

Hi, this probably sounds so silly but it would be nice to talk to someone who can maybe relate? or know why i'm like this...

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and ever since the day we met we haven't left each other's sides, we love each other's company we hate being apart, but when we are apart i feel like it's the end of the world. I take it SO bad as if he's died or something i just can't take it :( my heart hurts. literally...... we don't live together but we still spend every single night together at each other's houses so we technically do but we have our homes i’m 18 he's 20...... we go separate ways every morning mon-fri for work but i feel fine because i get to see him straight after work but if he ever has plans with friends or anything and i don't get to spend the night with him (like tonight) i can't help but cry so hard and act angry??? towards him??? i don't mean to but i just miss him so much. it's vise versa also... if i’m out with my friends he misses me so
much and he bes off?? with me... is this really unhealthy or are we just madly in love. We're each other's first relationship. i love this boy so much i can't stand being apart if i could eat him i would 🤣🤣 am i seriously so silly?????

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girlshelpxx · 04/06/2022 20:08

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toogoodforthisworld · 04/06/2022 20:29

You most definitely need to find ways to distract yourself when you are apart. See a friend. Sort out your wardrobe. Go in the bath and listen to your music etc. Doesn't need to be wild stuff.
You're heading for disaster I fear otherwise..

Beachsidesunset · 04/06/2022 20:52

Really, really unhealthy. Get some counselling.

GrazingSheep · 04/06/2022 20:53

Very unhealthy.

HalfShrunkMoreToGo · 04/06/2022 21:02

Unhealthy, you are 2 people and should be able to function as an independent entity when the he's not around.

You have not stumbled into the greatest love of all time, you are not 2 halves of the same whole or anything else dramatic and love song inspired.

You need to maintain your own interests and friendships and if you can't do that then you should seek counselling.

Wolfiefan · 04/06/2022 21:05

Completely unhealthy. You need some hobbies and time apart. You can’t build your whole life around another person.

Staynow · 04/06/2022 21:07

It doesn't sound like love it sounds like dependency.

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