I wasn't sure where to put this as there doesn't seem to be a thread for autistic adults so I hope I'm in the right place.
I know there may be lots of male identifying or non-binary autistics but I would particularly like imput from female autistics.
I am autistic and female, not a parent yet but I want to be one.
I wonder what your experiences relating to other non-autistic parents are. I worry my child will miss out because I am so often perceived to be anti social, rude or difficult which will rub off on them but I have no idea how to be any other way. Things have got better since I started telling people I I autistic but no one believes I am because I function, can talk and don't fit a look people's image of what what autistic person is. Most people don't know how to take me until they get to know me a bit. I am very blunt, anxious, have sensory issues, difficulties with self identity, need routine and familiarity, have strong interests etc. My neurotypical partner is very supportive, but I would love to hear how adult autistic female parents manage to parents their kids, relate to other people and handle life generally.
Peace out ✌ 😊