I'm sorry for the long post.
My husband and I had a business that failed.
We held on to it longer than we should because my husband 'liked' it.
We've been together for 20 years and he can be childlike, sometimes I feel more like his mum when we have big decisions to make.
Anyway since the start of the pandemic he is convinced he cannot breathe.
He has had breathing tests and chest X-rays which have all come back clear.
He was put on anti anxiety medication for a brief period and things seemed to settle down.
We are in a bad place financially and I am having to deal with creditors both from the lost business and personal.
We are currently in approx £20k of debt.
We are on universal credit and trying to get jobs. I have applied for over 300 jobs and haven't been successful. I am registered with agencies and have been accepted onto an agency to become a cleaner and hoping to get work very soon.
My husband had managed to get a really good job. Good pay and pension and we're both relieved that we can hopefully get back on an even keel.
He has had to complete a months training which he passed with flying colours and I have contacted all our creditors and agreed repayment programmes.
About two weeks ago husband started saying he couldn't breathe again. He isn't wheezing and I'm beginning to think it's all in his head.
Anyway he started the actual job on Monday and he quit yesterday.
He came home in the middle of the day and said he just can't do it.
He said he doesnt want to talk about it he just can't do it.
He has rung the gp today and got an emergency appointment and says it is his mental health.
I'm trying to be understanding but worried that we are going to lose our house if we can't get jobs.
When I try and talk to him all he says is sorry.
We are now not going to be able to make any of the repayments I have arranged and I just don't know what to do.