I’ll try to summarise. Unplanned pregnancy, very early, initially excited But then scared. He was the same- after a few days my state of mind changed drastically and I started to bleed. The pain was unbearable- I felt like mentally I’d tuned out of life and couldn’t quite cope with what was happened and how I was meant to deal with it all. Long story short, we decided terminating the pregnancy was the route for us. Now it’s done he has different feelings towards me. Not that he wasn’t supportive or agree with the reason but now just feels he can’t forgive the situation. I feel alone with this at times and try and talk it through but I can’t make sense of what’s happening myself. But I can say he helped me out of a painful situation and whilst I know feelings change and nobody would be able to know how they’d ever feel until they are in this situation themselves and feeling the exact same way. I sort of feel cheated. A decision that was supported by two people was made and followed through but the price isn’t only no potential family being started and also now no living feelings from him.
It’s so difficult- had anyone experienced this or similar? What do I do now?