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Notgettingbetter · 17/12/2021 13:50

They keep sending me round in circles. I was recently allocated my own mental health nurse. I asked him to sort a meds review for me. He's struggling to get hold of anyone and he's being discouraged from going into the office because of Covid. I just want someone who knows what they're doing to have a look at my meds and see if the dose should be increased, or if it's time to come off these and try something new. I went to Boots to collect my prescription just now and cried to the pharmacist, asking if I could get her opinion on the meds I'm taking. She was sympathetic but couldn't help. She encouraged me to find someone to talk to. I've been paying for my own counsellor.

The nurse said I can always go back to my GP about my meds - which is where I started months ago. I was happy with him and he actually listened to me. But he was on holiday when I asked if we could increase my dose a few months ago. Another GP spoke to me and said he didn't want to increase the dose. I asked to speak to a psychiatrist then. He said there weren't any. Eventually, after a lot of pushing, he sent me to a mental health team, one of them being a psychiatrist. And the team then told him to increase my dose as I had asked.

I suppose I will try to get hold of my usual GP. Of course it's Friday and Christmas time so fat chance. I'm so fed up of trying to do the right thing and getting nowhere. One of these days I think I might just walk out of the house and keep walking, into the middle of nowhere, until I can't walk any more. I hate being alive but I won't kill myself because I love my little girl too much to hurt her like that.

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chipshopElvis · 17/12/2021 14:03

That sounds really hard I'm sorry that you are struggling. If your medication is antidepressants your gp should be able to look at them for you. Is there another doctor at your surgery that you could ask for an appointment with?

Notgettingbetter · 17/12/2021 14:11

My partner has used the surgery's online message system to request a phone call from my usual doctor.

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BooseysMom · 17/12/2021 14:19

Sorry I have no specific advice here but just wanted to say hi and I know how you feel. I have often felt like just leaving and walking and walking and not looking back but like you, I would never do that to my DS and DH. I truly hope you find a way through this Flowers

Mrsbrownsbuoys · 17/12/2021 14:25

I'm sorry you're in this position. I'm in a similar one, have been for years. I'm now awaiting a call from the secondary mh team who I've been referred to .. at last. I was told the same, there's no psychiatrist. I've tried numerous antidepressants over the years, none of them help much, but I've piled on lots of weight, which isn't helping. I feel there's something more than depression and finally managed to convey that in an assessment, hence the referral now. I hope you get some help from your gp. I understand what you mean, I plan every night to pack my stuff and just set off somewhere, anywhere, or hope I don't wake up in the morning.

Notgettingbetter · 17/12/2021 14:38

@BooseysMom and @Mrsbrownsbuoys

Thank you for the sympathy and I'm really sorry about your own struggles ❤️

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Notgettingbetter · 17/12/2021 15:53

My lovely GP just called. We never actually talk for long but I always feel heard by him and taken seriously. He's going to increase the dose of one of my meds (and let the mental health team know). I don't know if it will make any difference but right now I'm just very glad someone is doing something.

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Mrsbrownsbuoys · 17/12/2021 17:37

That's good. Hopefully after a while the increase will make a difference. It takes a few weeks to take effect. Let us know how you get on?

BooseysMom · 20/12/2021 06:13

@Notgettingbetter.. so glad to hear your update. Smile He sounds a good gp..one to try and stay with if poss. Keep in touch x

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