@Vitallyli I'm nowhere near your area, and options/services may be very different, but I'm wondering if sharing the kind of organisations I'd be looking for based on what you've said might help.
Not counselling, but Home-Start - most areas /counties have one (volunteer support for families under stress, with at least 1 child under 5).
Family Lives helpline may be a useful first contact - have details for other organisations.
Health visitor, maternal mental health services - or organisations they know.
SSAFA - if either of you have been in forces.
Hubofhope.co.uk (kind of an online directory) might have more specific details (keyword/topic and area search).
Your local health authority webpage may have details of health and wellbeing services - including those they fund in charity sector.
Your local / Devon council for voluntary organisations or voluntary action may have directories of local organisations.
NHS may have a community based listening service (using trained volunteers).
Some organisations also offer support for partners/spouses/family members too.
Hope there's something there that might be a starting point. Some organisations/workers are very knowledgeable and great at signposting on, if they're not the right service for you - but it can be variable.