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helpmybumisswollen · 14/10/2021 18:56

Today for the first time I have finally spoken to a GP and admitted I am in a really bad place
I never ever thought I would be that person as I am the strong one , helps everyone , always jolly , coped with everything

Today I had a telephone consultation where I admitted I am not sleeping , binge eating , crying all the time , feeling suicidal , have no joy in my life , cut off all friends , hide true feelings from adult children, can't cope , don't want to cope , not going out unless I absolutely have to , no self care

She wants to take some bloods tomorrow to ensure no physical reason but I doubt there will be
Then talk to me about counselling and probably AD

Not sure if I feel better or worse for doing it and now writing this down
Please be kind

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SunshineCake1 · 14/10/2021 18:59

You have been so brave. I really hope you get decent support. I'd not, ask again.

helpmybumisswollen · 14/10/2021 19:12

Thank you

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Wolfiefan · 14/10/2021 19:14

Well done!!! It’s not always easy to say just how you feel. This is the start of your recovery. Seriously meds and CBT have changed my life beyond all recognition.
Good luck OP. Flowers

seriousandloyal · 14/10/2021 19:25

Well done, important first step taken today. Good luck x

helpmybumisswollen · 14/10/2021 19:26

Thank you @Wolfiefan which AD did they start you with and how long before you started to feel better ?

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notthatcommon · 14/10/2021 19:26

What you've done today takes massive strength and I'm so glad your GP is taking it seriously and handling it appropriately.
You're not alone in the feelings you've been having, recognising you need help and asking for it is a big thing and the first step towards things getting a little easier.
Hang in there Daffodil

helpmybumisswollen · 14/10/2021 19:27

Thank you @notthatcommon I have to say she was fantastic
Some of it I didn't say , she knew and asked me some questions, I was truthful and then just broke down

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SunshineCake1 · 14/10/2021 19:31

@SunshineCake1

You have been so brave. I really hope you get decent support. I'd not, ask again.
IF not, ask again. Sorry!
helpmybumisswollen · 14/10/2021 19:33

I got it @Sunshine thank you

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Wolfiefan · 14/10/2021 19:59

I’ve tried several different ones. I’m on fluoxetine now. It can take a few weeks for them to kick in.

Musthurry · 14/10/2021 22:25

No advice just wanted to say good luck to you op Flowers
I hope things turn around for you and that you get some support from your immediate family too.

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