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Advice on managing my teenage son

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fairlybalancedmum · 12/10/2021 13:34

Hi, I was wondering if you could advise me on my approach with my teenage son with ASD. He has become increasingly anxious and had low mood sine the start of the first lockdown. Prior to that he completed GCSEs and did many other activities whilst at a mainstream school. Covid has knocked him for six and he has lost confidence socially so much so that he won't do anything. He stays in bed until 2pm, I prompt his meals/showering/encourage walks etc. He says he doesn't feel ready to get a job or even volunteer. The GP is reluctant to start any medication because he is young (18). My question is how much should I push him. I'm sure lying in bed/ staying in PJs all day/ avoiding social contact is only making him worse. I've only really suffered from mild depression so I can't really understand his behaviour and why he can't motivate himself to do basis tasks. I try not to get cross but I can't see how he will ever get out of this sad situation. Does depression pass on its own does anyone know? He has so many opportunities and potential I can't see why he doesn't want more out of life. Sorry if I sound harsh but its been going on a while now. Thanks.

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namechange30455 · 12/10/2021 14:05

Speaking from a personal perspective, I would get a second opinion about ADs. My GP didn't want me going on them at 18 but with hindsight it would have probably been the best thing for me.

fairlybalancedmum · 12/10/2021 14:28

Thanks interesting namechange. Would you mind sharing any more details?

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