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I need help

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Helloxxxxxx · 11/08/2021 01:48

I am only 18 years old , I live with my boyfriend and can't go back to my mum as I wouldn't have a room for me and my baby , I feel so trapped ,he stresses me out so much , I have been with him for nearly 4 years and I thought u trusted him but looked on the phone he uses which I paid for and he is always watching porn or searching up girls on Facebook and Instagram even ones we know . He says I am good enough but I know I am not for him . I have put on a couple stone since we got together but he said he did that to me on purpose so boys don't look . I have told him how it makes me feel because it literally destroys me every time I see this stuff and he keeps promising not to do it again and he does . I don't care for him anymore but if I leave he will stop working and won't provide for our baby and I am not working and have no savings . I would have no where to go anyways and I hate this because I can't be with someone who keeps lying and is addicted to doing something that hurts me so much . Surely if he cared for me then he would be able to stop ? I am not enough . I am trapped and don't know how to get out of this mess . I really am not overreacting in the way it makes me feel and that's why I need to be out . I deserve happiness even if it's just me and my baby . All I want is to be happy I haven't been in so so long

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Sarahlou63 · 11/08/2021 08:10

Maybe ask for this to be moved to relationships? You'll get lots of good advice there. Report your post and admin will move it for you.

93sdb · 15/08/2021 00:26

Hey
Listen my love. You're 18. You have so many years left. Do you want to waste them with this guy? Someone who wouldn't pay for his baby out of spite for their mother? No. Go

Call housing solutions in your area. Call universal credit and ask what they can do to support you with income. Talk to citizens advice and seek support there. You'll be able to find all this through Google .

You'll be okay, as will your baby. As a fellow mum who got pregnant so young. It doesn't mean you're tied into a situation, you just have to go through it tactfully.

Youll be okay

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