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Coping with self isolation

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3teens2cats · 10/07/2021 15:00

As the title suggests we are currently self isolating as the 2 teens still at home have covid. I am just not coping and thought maybe sharing might help me process my thoughts.
So 18 year old, dh and myself are now on day 8 but poor 14 year old is back to day 2 after a positive result coming through yesterday. Dh and I are both fully vaccinated, symptom free and pcr negative but I just can't let go of the anxiety that I will catch it at the final moment. I know chances are i wouldn't be particularly ill but the thought of further isolation is overwhelming. I feel sick and panicky a lot of the time, not sleeping well and having difficulty concentrating on anything. I don't feel like my home is a safe place anymore yet i am trapped there. This sounds so melodramatic written down but it's how I feel. I am wiping surfaces every few hours and the teens are staying in their rooms as far as possible but it all feels so crazy, like i am being made to fear something I ordinarily would have no reason to fear. Normally if one of them was ill i would hug them oe sit on their bed and try to cheer them up so it feels totally unnatural to stay away from them. I am scared of my own family, it's bonkers. I feel like I have let my colleagues down in the busy summer term and so desperate to get back before we break up for the summer. The media this past week has really not helped so trying to avoid it now but that is easier said than done. Normally life is full on and busy and after 7/8 days of pottering about i just can't distract myself from my own thoughts anymore. I wish I could just fall asleep and wake up in 3 days time. So fed up now.

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treacletartpudding · 10/07/2021 20:57

Are you sure that you and DH don't have to isolate for the same time as 14year old as you're both negative? If 18yr old was positive then they can come out of isolation after their 10 days but I think if someone else in the house has tested positive in that time then everyone else has to restart as 14yr old could potentially be infectious for 10 days. I'm not 100% sure on this so definitely worth looking into.
We just came out of isolation last week, I know it is extremely hard not being allowed to leave your house but the time does pass and you will get there, I understand it's not nice though.

TwinkleMerrick · 10/07/2021 21:02

Get audible and listen to a book, escapism will help you switch off your brain.

What's the worst that will happen, you will get it but as you have been double jabbed your very unlikely to get very poorly. You may have to isolate for longer.

Do the things you are doing, keep cleaning surfaces down, keep windows open, stay away from your kids where u can.

Perhaps give urself a job each day to keep you busy, like batch cooking or cleaning windows....that's how I coped with isolating.

Good luck xx

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