I know there's an anxiety support thread, so I'm hoping some posters from there can give me some rational advice as my anxiety is through the roof at the moment.
In a nutshell, DH wanted to set up a business on the side in addition to our main jobs. Eventually, he wants to transition into this business FT, but it'll take a while to build up. This was 18 months ago and he essentially made the decision and pushed me into getting involved.
We've got through the pandemic so far, but it's clear that he didn't do much research regarding what we need paperwork-wise for the business - we're not in any trouble, but things just keep popping up that we need to do, oh, this form needs to be filed, we need this license, etc. It seems like he expects me to manage all this, whereas I feel as if he should've researched the ins and outs of the business before setting it up. I stupidly assumed he had, because he's generally a sensible person.
As someone diagnosed with GAD, I just can't cope with these unexpected things, I've started having panic attacks again and am seriously wondering whether we should split up. I don't want to hold him back, but I need things to be well-thought-out and planned, or I get ill. I can contribute in other ways as I'm good with people and can work well with clients.
Is this just my anxiety talking or do you think we're simply not compatible if this is the direction he wants to go in? Right now, I don't feel anything for him as I'm so unhappy.