Hi my sister has bpd and a history of lying she's gotten me in loads of trouble and my mum by lying. She also has a tendency to attention seek and either does drastic things to gain attention or lies. Well she got pregnant by a 67yo when she was only 17 then went out with her 47yo support worker.
Social services took her into mum and baby foster care. She's been out a month and Monday me and my mum had a spa day just the two of us now when me and my mum are together my sister tends to act out but having had 18 months of therapy and the fact that we not allowed to see her owing to lies she's told about us we went for the spa together for my mums birthday Monday.
Well today she has accused her Carers of both having sex with her (married couple been doing this for 30 years plus) and that she's pregnant with his baby and is having a abortion. She told her therapist this and now social services are going to take baby.
There's nothing I can do and a part of me wonders if after 18months of dbt therapy that my mum paid for she can still do this then maybe best thing for baby is adoption.
I can't adopt baby as I'm schizophrenic and I have 3 dc with SN zone with severe adhd one with severe asd and one with epilepsy. My mum who bore the brunt of the false allegations (for example that's she a alcoholic when she can't even drink two drinks without being drunk) is not allowed to adopt owing to allegations made no one else available too.
So I'm sat here and all I can do is wait for the phone call that my niece has been taken.
If the allegations are real then my sister is still vulnerable to sexual exploitation and she loses baby if she's lying then all her lies over the years are coming out and she loses baby she cannot win.
Have no one else to talk to and there's absolutely nothing I can do I can't speak to my mum because she's on the phone to my sister trying to keep her calm understandably so writing it down here don't think anyone can help just needed to get it out somewhere.