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Fake friends

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mummyyummy21 · 19/03/2021 12:14

I am writing this for advice. Since I got engaged, married and had a baby I have had someone I once considered my best friend act weirdly with me.

I know social media isnt real life but she sends me Facebook memories privately instead of just sharing on Facebook and her birthday posts to me as so basic and dry. She shares pictures and lovely messages for all of our other friends. I'm just sick of feeling like being her friend is a private thing. People have said she is jealous of me in the past. She has had the same boyfriend since university and wants to get married and I think that's what upset her.

We had a mutual friend who was a bitch to me when pregnant as I couldn't go to her wedding and completely blanked me. She was her maid of honour and went over the top in congratulating her but didnt even share anything about my wedding, not one picture.

Today she posted on our friends wall for her birthday and it was so over the top a million pictures cant wait to head out again to make memories yadda yadda so I deleted her.

I then decided to delete my Facebook as I'm so pissed off with social media. Hate having what you think is a friendship but the person treats you like a secret.

OP posts:
Dolciedolly · 21/03/2021 21:12

I get sensitive about these sort of things so decided to bin friends like this

Deedyn · 22/03/2021 08:35

I hate Facebook and deleted my account a few years ago now. Only you would really know how fake your friend is but I know what you mean.

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