I'm currently filling out forms as part of the ADHD assessment/diagnosis process. I've read a fair bit about it and I know I'm well over the threshold when it comes to the adulthood form - I've got really severe ADHD symptoms that impact on my life in major ways (and I can't see any other reason for having them) and I can remember having them from the point at which organisation and planning etc was required of me (when I left home). But I'm struggling with the childhood part for several reasons.
Firstly because I was a really good pupil at school. I always did well and was top of my class a lot of the time so my work didn't contain any careless mistakes. I really enjoyed school and had no issue with focusing. But then primary school was a fairly ADHD friendly environment I'd say. The teachers rarely taught for more than a few minutes at a time and then we'd get tasks to do that were designed to be fun and enjoyable and we could chat to our friends while doing them. You could do a quick sum, have a chat, do another sum, laugh at someone's joke, do another sum. Focus didn't really seem to be required for more than a minute or two in any real way
And then also because, I just didn't really do any of the things I struggle with in childhood. My parents had a go at trying to get me to do chores etc but gave up pretty early on and more or less organised and planned my life for me until I left home. I think I was just really hard to motivate (which to me suggests ADHD - fine with things I enjoyed like school but getting me to tidy up was near impossible) but it means there's not that much evidence of these traits in childhood. I know the assessment is an interview and I can explain etc but from what I've read I actually have to score above a certain threshold on both the childhood and adulthood questionnaires to be diagnosed. Is this true and does anyone know what the threshold is or how I should approach this?
I don't want to miss out on the possibility of a diagnosis because I feel like there might as well be a photo of me beside this condition in the textbook! It fits perfectly for my life from the point of leaving home when nothing else does.