Me and my ex have been separated for 3 years. He's got a pregnant partner and a child with her already. My ex is constantly giving me abuse over my Facebook and it's all because he partner stalks me every second of every day. I have blocked them both on their main accounts but they have second and third accounts to stalk me! I don't like putting pictures of me and our children on social media so I put random quotes, etc on there instead. My exes partner relates everything to her and him. If I put a quote about love, it's because I'm still in love with my ex or something is going on, if i put a quote about breastfeeding ( i breastfed my children, longest was 15 months) then I've done it because I'm pregnant with his baby or I'm making digs at her because she didn't breastfeed. Anything! It's bizarre! My profile is private but obviously you can't make a profile pic private and I'm not leaving it blank because of her! She can put whatever she wants of course but my ex sends me abusive texts and threatening messages if she complains.
His latest message was saying that if I put something up and his partner goes and questions him then he will make my life hell. He calls me a retard and a prick when we talk about Contact and other child related things.
I do think she's insecure about the fact I'm his ex wife and we have children and she's us don't Facebook to get him to be angry at me and we are at loggerheads so she can feel less insecure knowing we hate each other. It's affecting our co parenting relationship
I have deleted all my social media now to shut her up when I shouldn't have to. I should feel free to put what I want, not be stalked by her. I have to have my children in her care when my ex has them and it's worrying. This is affecting my mental health and I'm living in fear. I dread to think what would happen if I changed my relationship status if I was in a relationship and she would probably have a fit thinking me and my ex are at it. She's Seriously deranged!! I just hate having the abusive emails ( he's now blocked on messages) off my ex over something his partner has no right in commenting on!!!