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In a bad place

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inthedarkxx · 07/12/2020 22:19

In a bad place right now. Just think what's the point anymore, what is the actual point in life? All I have is stress and worry and don't even enjoy life anymore. I've had a terrible 2 years since husband left me, I'm not over it and I'm finding it hard. Watching him so happy having 2 baby sons ( ones a toddler and the other she's pregnant with) with another woman and I'm just here struggling to get over it after he left me suddenly and straight into her bed. I can't completely cut him out because of the children and i just think I'll never be happy again. My OCD ( since childhood) has playing up real bad, I'm getting bad intrusive thoughts, think f I've hurt my youngest baby girl ( I haven't) but these intrusive thoughts as so bad lately they make me think I've done the things that I haven't and then I feel Guilty.
I didn't have the best childhood, so then my adulthood has turned bad and I think I'm such a drain on society I may as well just relieve everyone and go. Maybe I deserve my husband leaving me for someone else, maybe I deserve everything I get. In 32 years one, and got nothing to show for my life. Maybe my ex is right i just 'pop out kids'

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Livelongandprosper · 07/12/2020 22:28

Hey @inthedarkxx, so sorry that you're feeling so bad at the moment. I don't know you but I'm pretty sure you don't deserve what's happened to you.

user182639104 · 07/12/2020 22:31

You don't deserve to suffer.

plumpootle · 07/12/2020 22:32

So sorry to read this. Can you access mental health support through your GP (if in UK).

Livelongandprosper · 07/12/2020 22:38

Come and talk to us, we care about you xx

Bookishnerd · 07/12/2020 22:51

Please call these guys and look after yourself www.samaritans.org/

allisgoodnow · 07/12/2020 23:03

Hi op. I have name changed for this one comment as the following has happened to me,

How old is your baby? Is it possible you may be in the early stages of a psychosis?
Thinking you've hurt somebody when you haven't can be a symptom. It's a very strange and scary place your mind goes too. Please speak to a professional soon, things can escalate very quickly and in my case my dp didn't seek advice until it was too late and it was a long road from the gutters to recovery

Good luck op 💐

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