Apologies if this is the wrong place to post.
My husband has been referred to get diagnosed with ADHD. He only got this referral a couple of weeks ago after I finally reached my limit after years of his behaviour and told him if he didn't speak to a counsellor for his spending problem then I would have to rethink our marriage - within half an hour of his appointment with a therapist, she said she was certain he had ADHD and would be referring him to get diagnosed officially.
Has anyone had experience of this? It isn't an excuse for his behaviour, but I am unsure how to deal with it practically.