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What a rubbish day

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Thomcat · 17/10/2004 18:50

You don't have to read or respond, jusy might help to cry on the virtual shoulder for a m inute. Sorry for the typing. Oh I don't even know if I can be bothered to do anything other than go upstairs and bawl my eyes out. Have bickered and bickered all day with DP and feel exhausted. I wanted us to take DD out to park or something he didn't and we've just been horrible to each other all day. Now I've gone and broken the stereo by forcing a tape out I wanted to listen to, we've spent the day in seperate rooms virtually, I just feel PMTish, tired, and really bloody lonely and sorry for myself. Am crying as I type and don't know and don't have the strength to do anything about it.

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nikcola · 17/10/2004 18:52

donmt no what to say tc but i hope u feel better soon sending u hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thomcat · 17/10/2004 18:56

Thanks mate. I think after years of being on the pill PMT has got me. I think that's what it is, I just feel.... gutted, tired, really teary and just keep arguing with DP all the time. Really don't know what else it could be. See, I'm crying again, that's not normal.

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motherinferior · 17/10/2004 18:58

Babe - your hormones are changing, you're 'going for a baby' which is less face it bloody stressful, you've got a small child AND it's effing autumn. I'm so sorry. Pour a nice glass of wine, offer one to D IF and only IF you feel like it, and slump. Big virtual hugsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Spacecadet · 17/10/2004 18:59

You poor thing I'm not probably the best person to give advice, but I just wanted to say hello and to let you know I am thinking of you. I always find that a good cry always helps as does pummeling the living daylights out of a pillow. Hope you feel better soon.

Thomcat · 17/10/2004 19:03

Well I'm still crying but at least I'm smiling as well now, thanks. I don't like this hormone lark at all!

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nikcola · 17/10/2004 19:05

tc tell me about the jump that u done

anorak · 17/10/2004 19:14

Hey, Thomcat, I get like that sometimes when my hormones are unbalanced. Looking back the next day it's all too easy to see that I was getting upset with dh over nothing!

Go and give him a hug, and tell him your bloody hormones are making you feel shitty, and that you're sorry you've been so grumpy today. I'm sure he'll give you a hug back and feel much better for knowing why you've been as you are. Then you can get the cuddle you need.

Thomcat · 17/10/2004 19:16

Oh babes I can't just argued with D again and just need to be miserable and cry some more, thanks though.

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JanH · 17/10/2004 19:31

TC,

Has Lottie gone to bed? Could you go out and see a friend for a bit (if you have the energy) and let it all out? Would D be OK with you doing that?

blossomhill · 17/10/2004 19:36

Tc - Sending lots of love and hugs {{{{}}}}

I am sure you will work things out. I too have just come on and felt like sh*t beforehand. Hormones do play a major part in making us women
upset!

October · 17/10/2004 19:38

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nikcola · 17/10/2004 20:33

how u feeling tc?

WideWebWitch · 17/10/2004 21:51

PMT is AWFUL, sympathies. Hope tomorrow is better Thomcat.

blossomhill · 17/10/2004 23:12

Hope you feel better soon Thomcat xxx

Thomcat · 18/10/2004 12:53

Thanks girls. Feel ashamed of how I was yesterday. Haven't had PMT for years as have been on the depo injection. Last time I felt this out of control was when i was pregnant. Just not used to to it, wasn't expecting it and let it escalet big tiome. I was all over the place yesterday, crying, snappy, just awful.
Feel gutted I wasted a day being so miserable and silly. That's PMT from hell for you though aye. Must see if there's something I can take to make next month better.

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Spacecadet · 18/10/2004 12:57

Glad you feel a bit better today, I think vitaminB6 is quite good for Pmt could be worth a try, evening primrose oil also quite good.

Thomcat · 18/10/2004 13:07

Well I'm at work so have to get on and not be a mad bitch from hell here!!! Poor D, I was AWFUL yesterday, I feel so bad. Will go to a health food shop on Friday and stock up on anything you think might prevent this happening again, or at least to the extent it did yesterday.

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