How best to help someone receiving inpatient treatment?

[SnackBitch2020]

Just that really.

My friend was admitted to hospital on Friday. We've spoken on the phone, and I said I'd keep in touch, but I have made it clear in a nice way that I would not take offence if he wanted to be left in peace! He's fine with me calling every couple of days or so. He's been admitted a number of times in the past, although not for a few years.

I would really welcome suggestions of how best can I support him? Hospital is understandably not allowing visitors except for v limited circumstances.

Thanks

Is he allowed leave at all or is he inside most of the time?
I would send things to do in his room, treats, cards telling him that he will get better and reminding him he did before. Ringing him every few days sounds sensible.

I work in an inpatient ward btw!

Thanks Peachypig! I'm not sure if he can leave or not. He is a voluntary patient though. At the moment he's been "isolated" due to Covid, and this will be the case for another week or so.

Thanks for the suggestions, these are the sorts of things that I was thinking of. I understand you can write to people in hospital so I might send a nice card or drawing etc. I'm not sure how long he'll be in for but I'm guessing at least a few weeks.

I guess I'm scared of saying the wrong thing. Mainly I just reiterate my love and support, and ask how he is etc. I try to avoid any glib "cheer up" type statements!

Peachypips not pig! OMG sorry!

Hi again, I've spoken to the hospital and I'm able to send letters/cards/gifts to my friend.

I'm thinking of sending a small package containing a puzzle book, small pack of biros, a top trumps card set, large bar of chocolate and a magazine about something they like.

Does that all sound ok? The hospital will check any packages first but that's fine by me. Thanks

Sounds good to me, what about a nice shower gel

Inpatients frequently smoke I know when visiting a sibling it's what he wants.

A small radio and head phones. Sleep can be difficult.

Great suggestions - thank you!