Name change and a long kbe... . DH suffers from depression. Bad depression. Has done since he was a teen. It's been building and building and in January I told him to go to the Dr's. He did and was given a low dose of mitrizapine. A month later he had a good review with Dr and he upped it to 45mg. He started taking it and things appeared to be getting better. Then CV hit. His wages were reduced which put the kybosh on us buying our first house. He has issues with work. He has another health issue too which he is just getting over a period of of. He is mood/attitude has fallen off a cliff in the last couple of months. He can not say one positive thing. Constantly negative, miserable, sulking, barely talking. Went to cupboard today and found unopened blister packs of his AD's. He hasn't been taking them. Asked him why, couldn't give a reasonable answer. He is sucking the life out of me. I was on the phone to the Dr's to ask them to up MY AD's (setraline) to negate the fact he isn't taking his and to help me deal with him and I thought "WTF am I doing why I am doing this to myself?" So when the receptionist answered I told her it was regarding my DH. I told her EVERYTHING and she said whilst she would pass on the info to his Dr, he won't be able to do anything. Is this true?? Before lockdown he used to call him on a monthly basis for a review but because of CV it stopped. Surely armed with this information he would have a duty of care to contact him??
It is pointless talking to him. Its like banging your head up against a brick wall. I'm at the end of my tether.