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Out of control

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hardtimeuphere · 04/06/2020 10:12

Feeling like my mental health,marriage, physical health has never been this bad. Know I probably just need a kick up the backside but also need to let it out. Almost three years ago we moved to the Highlands from South East and now I have so many regrets. We were never meant to be here for longer than a couple of years but we had an unexpected baby and now it feels we are stuck here. All my family is so far away and I have coped with a new baby on my own without them for what seems forever (now 11 months). My lovely hubby built a business here and we have a secure long term rental which although has many problems is very cheap, but cannot just up and leave as we would have to start from scratch somewhere where the rent would be tripled. Feel hopeless and stuck in a place we are both beginning to hate filled with rain,ticks,midges, clegs and loneliness. Feel like husband is beginning to resent me for wanting to move here. I only wanted to move because I thought he was very unhappy where we were and thought this would be a fresh start. At first we were so poor but so happy now we are ticking over better and beginning to save (long time before we can get a mortgage) with a baby we just are so unhappy. Hardly talk to each other. I'm torn between starting to try any way I can to earn money from home to get out of here (but that seems so hopeless) or to focus on blooming where I'm planted and repairing my marriage. Does anyone have any advice/hope out there? Know many people have worse problems than me just wanted to let it out

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