Hi all,
I’m starting to get a bit down about something and wanted some unbiased views!
I’m completely aware this probably sounds childish but it is getting to me when I know it probably shouldn’t.
I am in a WhatsApp group with a few other mums. I met them during Mat leave two years ago at classes and we got on well.
My issue is that lately I feel quite ignored in the group. Quite often they’ll be having a conversation but when I chip in they all go quiet. I know it’s a really silly thing and I do think maybe it is me overthinking ( I do have a tendency for this!) but I’ve looked back a few times and it’s quite obvious that they tend to not reply to me but happily chat with others😔
I know I could leave but I do actually enjoy the company when we occasionally meet up. It’s also nice to have a group like that for support.
I’m not one for saying a lot in these groups so maybe when I do they’re just not used to it 🙈
In all seriousness though it does hurt me 😔I remember once posting that my little boy had been up with a bug and no-one acknowledged it or asked me if he was ok.
I don’t think they are intentionally doing it & I know everyone had their own lives it’s just clear that when other people chat they get a response and a lot of reassurance etc