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Dont know whats wrong with me....

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HedgeHogFoxBadger · 25/02/2020 22:13

Ive struggled for a couple of years now on and off. Split up with my husband nearly 3 years ago, first year was a great year and then he had a baby with another woman which hit me hard.
Ive been in a relationship for a year but we split up in october last year. I am on anti Ds already, been up and down doses and finally settled on a dose and dont really want to increase again.
I work 4 days a week, I love my job and thrive around routine and function much better in a routine. I have 3 children aged 17, 13 and 5. I dont get much of a break.
I am drinking probably every night, a bottle of wine. I hate doing this because I am fit and healthy. I go to the gym 4 times a week. I have put on some weight and i hate the way I look. I hate myself so much.
I need to get out of this because tonight i am really struggling

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lexiepuppy · 27/02/2020 01:00

@HedgeHogFoxBadger
I am sorry to hear you are having a rough time. Do you have any support from family and friends?

Was your divorce amicable? Your ex husband having a baby with another woman is difficult to hear, especially if you still have feelings for him.

A bottle of wine each night is a lot, try and cut down. You sound like a healthy gym bunny so think of all the damage you are doing to your liver and kidneys.
Try and reduce it to a couple of glasses a night.

Have you started dating again?

Try and love yourself more.😊

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