Hello,
I got quite close to lady whose son is in my son’s year. They are both 5 years old. Due to this friendship I also looked after this little boy a lot as a favour.
I’ve decided to distance myself a few months go because I found out she has been lying to me about numerous things. Some of them small lies some big - like her place of work! I find this totally unacceptable since I have had her son in my care while she’s at work.
I think her child is displaying trauma/stress I’m not sure why... could be as a result of the huge network of lies his mum tells.
He has started wetting and soiling himself for a few months now, sometimes while I’ve been looking after him, sometimes at home. She’s told me the DRs say no sign of infection.
He has very inappropriate behaviour, he often strips naked at birthday parties and at my house. I’ve also seen him hitting and kicking his mum at birthday parties. At my sons own birthday party he was hitting and kicking him, my son is a very sensitive child and is very timid. It was very distressing to watch.
He is extremely violent, talks about stabbing children with forks, he’s told a child he’s going to shoot him in the head. He’s tried to get pupils to do things like hit a baby at soft play.
He has been to many nurseries and is moving on to his 2nd school in just over a year.
His mum invents and fabricates lies to deflect attention away from the fact that her son has issues. I think he has learnt this behaviour from his mum and tells lies all the time. For example he told me his Uncle plays football for Chelsea. A lie has now been fabricated between herself and her son that he is being horrifically bullied and the school have covered it up which has resulted in the soiling however the school has assured me that there is no truth to this.
None of the above is speculation I’ve seen this behaviour with my own eyes and so have other parents.
I’m wondering if I should be conferred or just keep my nose out of other peoples business but this little boy is clearly showing signs of trauma.