Long story short, there is a lady of similar age to myself who is in a relationship with my Dad. They seem to break up very frequently and when this happens things are posted very publicly on FB about how he is controlling and manipulating and the things he makes her do and comparing it to his previous wives. In fairness she seemed really lovely the few times I met her but is probably a bit vulnerable and I feel really sorry for her. when she does this I feel like messaging her (privately) to say please don't do this to yourself, please stay away from him for your own good. It is clearly not a healthy relationship.
It is fair to say that with a demanding full time job, 2 children who have had problems at school and a housebound (older) demanding relative I have plenty to sort out really without getting involved but I feel so sad for her.
Should I contact her to offer support or stay out of it? Last night I felt particularly bad for her as she had posted and then a mutual friend of theirs was almost goading her saying 'ooh I thought you had a great relationship' which was unfair.
I have contact with my Dad but am trying to reduce and keep this at a minimum possible as I don't like the way he treats people despite the fact that he comes across to everyone else as such a fun loving person.
I feel so conflicted.