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Lindsey84 · 20/10/2019 19:55

I really dont know what 2 do anymore i think i av sumthing wrong with me my teenage years were pretty traumatic i was plied with alcohol n raped by a group of men thankfully i was unconscious n i only experienced the pain n humiliation as i woke up in a bin yard with out my clothes n had no other option other than walk home in just my torn skirt i was 15 when this happened then when i was 17 i was kidnaped by a pimp coz my cousin ran off with 1 of his girls n i was forced to earn the money that he was losing due to my cousin he kept me for 8 days n then just dropped me off exactly where he took me from n the other time two guys offered me a lift n i exepted they didnt take me home they took me to an empty flat apart from a matteress on the floor n a tv on a wooden chair their was nothing else in it but i managed to escape by asking if i could get a drink out of the tap then i noticed the key in the door so i put the tap on opened the door n ran i had no idea where i was but a lady stopped to find out if i was ok n she took me home but as a young adult i met the most amazing boyfriend who made me feel special n loved n i planed on spending the rest of my life with we had a son the a daughter i had difficult pregnancys but i was so happy until i woke up after m second c section n was told id been sterilized i couldn't understand why i but they told me that if i was to get pregnant again my life would be at risk so i started trying to forget n move on then my partner found out he had a 18 year old daughter n started trying to build a realationship with her but he was visiting her at her aunties house n as time went on i felt he was losing interest in me so i put an app on his fone that enabled me to receive all his incoming n outgoing tx messages n he was telling her he loved her i couldnt believe it i felt so lost n alone my world was cumbeling away from under my feet this was 2 years ago im still with him coz life without him is more unbareable but i cant seem to cum to tearms with it n im struggeling so much ive tried taking my own life but i managed fone a friend before i became unconscious n he managed to bring me round i really love my patner still n i want the relationship to work but i dont know how to get past this thankyou any advice would be appreciated greatly

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WalnutBerry · 21/10/2019 23:04

@Lindsey84 if you posted this on Relationships, everyone would tell you to leave him. You CAN do this.

What happened to you in early life sounds horrific, have you had counselling? Flowers

Lindsey84 · 22/10/2019 14:54

Ive had some but they only allow 18 50 min sessions n although that may sound alot it doesnt feel like that

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