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Am I depressed?

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QuestioningDepression · 29/09/2019 16:15

I’ve name changed for this. Despite people saying there is no shame in mental illness etc there is still such a stigma about it all.

I’m wondering if I may have depression and if it’s worth a visit to my GP. I feel I could have been suffering for a long time now.

I have periods of feeling “flat”, not happy or sad, no excitement, no joy. Just like I’m in a bubble where nothing affects me.

I also have periods where I just can’t be bothered. Can’t be bothered to keep up with the housework, cooking healthy meals and rely on convenience food etc.

I also have down periods where I feel emotional all the time. It either bubbles beneath the surface and I cope or I cry at the slightest thing or feel like crying for no apparent reason.

Then I have the rage periods. I can go from “normal” to raging angry and shouty. Sometimes for no reason. Others for the slightest thing.

Generally though I’ve just lost interest in things that used to be my “things”. I can’t read anymore or watch tv. All I can focus on a lot of the time is scrolling through FB or mumsnet. I’ve got zero sex drive anymore, I’ve put on lots of weight and I generally don’t give two shits about my appearance whereas I used to love clothes, shoes, my hair and makeup being done. I feel like I’m throwing my life away doing nothing. I keep thinking about going back to do my 2nd degree at uni, then back out at last minute as I keep thinking they either won’t even interview me or I’ll be rubbish at it and fail.

Does this sound like depression? Should I go to my GP?

Thanks

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tierraJ · 29/09/2019 22:06

Yes I think you sound depressed, I would definitely speak to your gp x

QuestioningDepression · 30/09/2019 14:45

I’m so bloody miserable today. All I’ve managed to do since dropping my children at school is sit on the sofa and semi watch tv / drink tea / scroll FB & even getting of the sofa for the loo / make food & drink etc has been a monumental effort. I feel exhausted today even though I slept about 10 hours last night and now psyching myself up for walking the 15 minute walk each way to pick them up. Where I’ve no friends in the playground and no one talks to me which compounds the feeling shit about myself.

I’m hoping tomorrow will be better. It’s a 4 week wait for non urgent appointments at my GP which doesn’t really help me. Would this class as urgent?!

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tierraJ · 30/09/2019 19:39

I think it's urgent as you aren't really able to just get in with life when you feel so low

fromthefloorboardsup · 04/10/2019 19:31

You've described exactly how I'm feeling and I've been wondering if I'm depressed too. Probably is worth both of us seeing a GP. Hope you're okay.

LouiseLaura · 25/10/2020 15:35

Hi Questioning Depression (I feel a little strange saying hi to questioning depression 🙈) I know this post is over a year old.... but how are you doing???? Did you ever get round to going to the doctors? What got said and suggested (if you don't mind my asking) I can massively relate to all what you've said. I think I've been struggling on and off for around 8 years, since my second pregnancy 😭I'm totally fed up with all the shit. I just want to feel like me again... I just can't see that happening right now. And this pandemic is a total trigger for mental health. I'm tempted to see my doc but I worry that she'll suggest antidepressants and I'm just so fearful if the horrible side effects.

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