I separated from DH at the end of July. There were many reasons but in short he had not worked for 15 years because of M.E and had grown withdrawn, negative and somewhat controlling. He did not participate in family life at all and i mean at all and was mainly concerned with smoking and obtaining weed. I was very unhappy.
In the months before he left he started getting paranoid convinced there was a huge conspiracy against him. That people were out to kill him, that there were people trying to break into our house, that people on the internet were talking about him, plotting etc. The night i asked him to leave he was crouched against the garden fence with an axe listening because he believed there were people on the other side talking about him with guns.
Since he went to his mothers he has not left the house in 12 weeks and 3 days. He believes his phone and car are being tapped and tracked.
I have spoken to him on the phone and told him that i want the split to be permanent. He is devastated.
He calls me and switches between being furious, threatening to take all the furniture, accusing me of cheating, saying that the kids need a DNA test as they probably aren't his to crying and sobbing.
Yesterday he told me he cannot live without me, that he cannot cope physically or mentally and that his future is taking 200 Tramadol.
He saw a private psychiatrist 2 weeks ago who disgnosed a paranoid psychosis episode and gave him Olanzapine. He may be taking them but he's also still sinking a lot and i mean a lot of weed alongside it. He told the psychiatrist and he said it should be ok but how can that be ?
Friends are trying with him but hes just getting worse. He hasnt seen the kids, doesn't contribute financially, won't leave the house its a nightmare.
I dont know whether his doctor needs to know all this ?
He isn't due to see the psychiatric doctor again till the start of October?
Please help ?