I self harmed in my teens and it's left me with scars on my legs. DS who's 5 asked me about them today, he recently cut his head and he's now got a scar there so he we were talking about it and he pointed out that I've got scars too and then asked me how I got mine, I told him I got hurt but he wasn't happy with that answering and wanted to know what happened, I just told not to worry about it and it doesn't matter. It's bothered more than I would have thought, I've always been a bit embarrassed about them and I don't like having to see them myself nevermind over people. It bothers me that one day he'll probably understand what they are