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Anxiety & Vomiting

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justgotbanned · 05/08/2019 07:40

Hi everyone. I'm hoping to receive some advice on how I can stop vomiting within an inch of my life with anxiety!

Back story, I first had anxiety during my A-levels. I'm now 34 and have had bouts on and off for years. Usually, I just feel sick, i never actually am sick. But due to feeling sick, the weight drops off me and I start to look quite poorly. I've tried sertraline in the past but it gives me palpitations so over the years I haven't gone back to the doctors with it.

Flash forward to now. I'm having some problems with work. Not directly regarding me, but my bosses and team who are expected to lose their jobs. I've been deemed as "safe", but it just makes for a terrible time at work as it's incredibly awkward. At home there are things happening with one of my children which is totally out of control. It feels her future is in the hands of someone else and if it isn't sorted, she will be so disappointed. We've also a family wedding coming up.

Due to the above, my stomach feels like a washing machine. And I'm vomiting, really badly. My mouth is full of sores, presumably from the acid. I can eat, but it's very little and then comes back up when the anxiety flares, usually when I'm having down time on the sofa. My kids can hear me being sick and they're worried about me. I'm sick until there is nothing left, and my stomach feels like it's twisting. At night I sweat like a pig, it really is disgusting but presume it's all connected.

Does anyone have any tips on how I can curb my nausea? Breathing exercises? What about the night sweats. We're talking 3+ weeks to see my GP, and if I'm honest I'd rather get this sorted in my own if I can. Thanks.

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ThighsRelief · 05/08/2019 10:12

I used to vomit with anxiety (once in a while) i cut every scrap of caffeine out and the vomiting stopped. Not even a sip.

NoBaggyPants · 05/08/2019 10:17

Can you ring your GP on the day and get an emergency appointment, or a call back? Given the effect this is having on you, it does warrant it.

There are lots of different medications you can try, as well as talking therapies and mindfulness and meditation. I practice yoga, which can really help ground you in the worst moments. Look up Yoga with Adriene on YouTube, she has videos especially for anxiety.

Regarding eating, think about what you can do to keep something down. Ginger can help with the nausea. Also specialist drinks like Ensure(?) to make sure you're getting some nutrition until you're able to eat normally again.

NoBaggyPants · 05/08/2019 10:19

For night sweats, they need to look at hormone imbalance. You're young to be peri but not that young.

Are you on any hormonal contraception? That can cause anxiety in some people.

justgotbanned · 05/08/2019 10:55

Thank you for commenting. I don't drink any caffeine, maybe the odd coke if I take the kids to McDonald's but that's about it. I drink about 3ltr of water every day mixed with dilute orange which is probably packed with sugar.

Our doctors do have a sit and wait system, but it's at 8am which is when the kids have to be at childcare so I can be at work for 8:30, so it's hard. They do know at work that I'm not quite right, but I've not told them just how bad. I spend ages in the loo as when I'm sick, it makes my eyes go red so I have to wait for them to go down before I can leave.

No contraceptive pill as partner has had the snip.

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justgotbanned · 05/08/2019 10:55

Thank you for commenting. I don't drink any caffeine, maybe the odd coke if I take the kids to McDonald's but that's about it. I drink about 3ltr of water every day mixed with dilute orange which is probably packed with sugar.

Our doctors do have a sit and wait system, but it's at 8am which is when the kids have to be at childcare so I can be at work for 8:30, so it's hard. They do know at work that I'm not quite right, but I've not told them just how bad. I spend ages in the loo as when I'm sick, it makes my eyes go red so I have to wait for them to go down before I can leave.

No contraceptive pill as partner has had the snip.

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justgotbanned · 05/08/2019 10:56

Thank you for commenting. I don't drink any caffeine, maybe the odd coke if I take the kids to McDonald's but that's about it. I drink about 3ltr of water every day mixed with dilute orange which is probably packed with sugar.

Our doctors do have a sit and wait system, but it's at 8am which is when the kids have to be at childcare so I can be at work for 8:30, so it's hard. They do know at work that I'm not quite right, but I've not told them just how bad. I spend ages in the loo as when I'm sick, it makes my eyes go red so I have to wait for them to go down before I can leave.

No contraceptive pill as partner has had the snip.

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justgotbanned · 05/08/2019 10:57

To add, my gran went through the menopause at 44 and my mum at 40, so it's not impossible that it could be that on top of the anxiety.

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MashedSpud · 05/08/2019 12:40

I had this from aged 16 until my mid twenties. I would get horrible chest pains which would subside after vomiting. Had lots of hospital tests and eventually was informed it was stress.

After you puke try to pinpoint what caused the stress to induce vomiting and try to manage those thoughts. Breathing exercises and meditating can help too. Letting go of things you can’t control may also help

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