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Bad day with unwell DH

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WineIsMyCarb · 03/08/2019 10:31

Have posted about DH before. Today's a bad day. He's been great all week. But stupidly I made breakfast at the table and by the end he couldn't manage it. Then screamed for help from upstairs. DC watching telly so went up. Massive screaming violent panic attack. I tried to say the things he's asked me to and it didn't even reguster. Had to leave the room to protect my wellbeing. He was screaming so I went back in. I got upset - told him I would give everything of myself for him and would die so he could be free and will love him til the day I die. So heartbroken. Why does this have to be in our lives? Why can't I have my DDDDDH all the time? What's it like to be married and your DH be 'there' all the time? To know their personality will be with you from one moment to the next? What do you do when the person you love to death is in hell? How do I cope with being so alone?

So heartbroken. Totally empty.

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dollybooo · 03/08/2019 19:46

Sorry op didn't want to read & run... sending strength & hugs ThanksThanksThanks

granadagirl · 03/08/2019 20:03

Have you been to the Gp or help( don’t think I’ve read your post)

WineIsMyCarb · 03/08/2019 22:31

Thanks Dolly and Granada. He's been to GP and lots of therapy. It has improved things but not removed it entirely. It may never go away. Thank you for reading and the Flowers. Things are calmer tonight. Hopefully we will have a more positive day tomorrow. Thanks again for your support.

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artio0 · 03/08/2019 22:36

You sound amazing! I wish more people had your understanding and patience, the world would be a wonderful place...

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