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I don’t know what to do - anxiety and panic attacks back

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Cinders29 · 09/07/2019 10:30

Hi everyone,

I’ve suffered anxiety and panic attacks for the last 12 years following a really bad trip. I feel like I suffered some kind of PTSD from it , as I used to get so panicked that the sensation was happening again, I had a few bad years of anxiety and panic attacks and went on to sertraline.
Fast forward a few years and I had a lot of problems when pregnant with ds - he has multiple disabilities that were diagnosed during pregnancy. I had EMDR plus counselling and since ( around 4 years ) I’ve been great, best I’ve ever felt.

Last year, he died following a seizure and since I have been extremely worried and stressed , I also run two businesses as well as all the normal day to day, but although I felt sick with worry all the time, I wasn’t slipping back into anxiety and felt ok on the whole.

I started to feel better about my son and was starting to feel calmer and then all of a sudden out of nowhere I had a huge panic when out with a friend and my youngest.

Since, I’ve had constant anxiety and really bad panic attacks. Its got so bad I feel physically unable to look after my children. Constantly in a state of detachment and panic. Im really struggling to cope. I feel like I’m on the verge of having a breakdown.

I went to see a counsellor last night but had to leave to having a huge panic attack, she started to perform BWRT on me and it just freaked me out and I felt like I was on the verge of that bad trip again.

I’m really at a loss as to what to do... I need to do something soon as holidays are coming up and I need to be with it for my son for when he seizes but I’m just feeling so exhausted and like I’ve no energy to fight this all over again.

OP posts:
Cinders29 · 09/07/2019 10:33

Sorry - NEARLY died! Sorry I cannot work out how to edit that

OP posts:
granadagirl · 09/07/2019 23:35

Can you manage to take any time off from your business?

You can’t possibly carry on, you need a break from the stress.
No wonder your drained, running a family/home and work is enough without the exhaustion of what anxiety attacks do to you.

What about going to gp, he may give you a short course of diazepam
Just to calm you down, give you some thinking time to what you want to do next.
Perhaps then you may handle therapy better

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