Please or to access all these features

Mental health

Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention.

Starting to annoy myself with anxiety

1 reply

MrsRussell · 09/07/2019 08:49

So I'm what you might call a resting self-harmer and quite a naturally anxious person - massively prone to overthinking and catastrophising.

The Saturday before last we made some potted meat to a recipe in one of those Country Kitchen cookbooks from the 1980s, it says store it in a cool dry place not the fridge. We have a pantry so this is what I did.
This Saturday we had it on toast. Cue me then looking up a method for bottling fruit and lo and behold, I have now decided I've given me and DH botulism and we're going to die of it.
Saturday afternoon I made myself sick because OMG THE SPORES.
I've deliberately deleted it from my search history so I can't keep going back and researching the symptoms. Last night I couldn't sleep for thinking what if DS comes into our bedroom and we're both dead, what will happen....

IABU. IABVVU. I know it.
I've spoken the GP about it but am v reluctant to start medication because (this sounds counter-intuitive but it's how I roll) it would legitimise it for me: I'd start to be anxious about anxiety, and worrying about side-effects and is it just anxiety or is it going to develop into something worse and blah.... I was like this when I was pregnant. My midwife gave me an internet ban and told me to take up cross-stitch :-D

How do I manage this before it becomes something that does need intervention?

OP posts:
SummerSix · 09/07/2019 14:24

Sounds like it already needs intervention.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page