I'm currently being bullied by my friend's wife, and I have been for some time. I have shown messages and spoken about it to another friend and she agreed with me so I know I'm not imagining it or overreacting. It's been really hard lately. I've been going through a huge bout of depression and both things combined have led to needing time off work. I could cope with one or the other but not both. My friend has told me that even though he doesn't agree with everything that his wife says to me, he has to because she's his wife. My other friend who I've been talking to about this has told me that there is no way she'd expect her husband to agree with her if she was saying the same things to one of his friends. I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose my friend but it's so damn hard. If she was a stand-alone friend I'd just block her on Facebook and cut all contact, but if I do that I lose him too. Tbh I haven't actually spoken to her in over a month and that feels great but it's meant I've had to limit my time spent with him because I can't be around the both of them together at the minute. It's affecting my mental health too much. Any advice?