Anti depressants and trying to conceive

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Hi there,

Has anyone been denied anti depressants while trying to conceive? I struggle with my depression since having my little boy but because I have a lot going on and I'm struggling with my moods I decided to try and get help but my dr is refusing anti depressants and has instead referred me somewhere. I have already been through CBT counselling and although this helped me tonnes to control my anxiety it doesn't really help with my horrible down days. He has told me I can contact my health visitor but I'm not sure what they can do. I honestly feel like crying because I have no one to talk too and I really feel like I need some help.

I haven't been in that position but I have been on antidepressants and was told in ko uncertain terms that if i were to get pregnant the baby would not be viable.

Please do speak to your HV as your GP has suggested. They will be in the best position to advise and support you. Sorry you are going through this.

There are definitely antidepressants that are safe to take whilst conceiving and throughout pregnancy. I would see another doctor.

Please ask to see another GP. People can and do take antidepressants during pregnancy. The first trimester is normally the time when medication will have most impact on the foetus- maybe your doctor is thinking of this? Regardless, many women are prescribed sertraline during pregnancy to help manage depression. A good GP should help you weigh up the pros and cons of being on medication. Good luck.

I take citalopram, though a dose for anxiety rather than depression. There are some studies that suggest a very slight increase in heart issues for the developing fetus but my gp and a had a long chat and agreed that it was better for me and the baby for my anxiety to be under control and for me to continue with my medication. Ds was born healthy and happy and I have no intention of discontinuing my medication at this time.

You need to talk to another gp about possible options.

In the kindest way, are you trying to conceive currently? If you are struggling with your mental health, would it perhaps be better to wait for you to feel more stable before adding pressure and stress of etc and a newborn?

Why are you trying to get pregnant again when you’re struggling? Get better first, be the best you can be for the child you already have.

Thank you for all your comments.

@meow1989 @aPengTing yes you are absolutely right. Me and my partner have decided to stop trying for the time being and just focus on my mental health and my little boy. We started trying in February when things were good and the last couple of weeks everything has gone wrong. Work, family and other stuff. You know what it's like when everything comes at once. It's just obviously not the right time for our little family.

Thank you again everyone 💞