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I cant no more

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tabby1234itsmy3boys · 22/05/2019 15:15

My fiance of 7 years just choked me yesterday. He ran up on me while i was in my closet pushed me up againt the xorner of the door and put his hand around my neck and squeezed my arm. He pushed all his 325 pounds hp against me and then threw me onto the hed which my child watched(hes 3) he got on top of me and placed my arm over my head anx the other he squeezed tightly. He told me he was gonna shoot me woth his gun. The argument started cause of his comments he posts to this girl. She showing up at his job and messaging him to come over and fix her car "tire" . I brought it up to him with all the coments he he teloing her like he likes to freaky and how ue preforms in hed ect. Today my body is so sore. I feel like i gotten ran over by a bus. I can barly move and now i walk so slow. I xant even bend over. My body hurts bad. Not the first time he threatened to kill me in front of my kids. All this started last year. Tye argument every day ever since some random guy he knows says he had sex with me which is a lie. I dont knkw any one in this town. I moved here in 2012. I know no one. . He gets mad when i talk to my family or my friends. We just receblt moved. This ppace im not allpwed to have keys to the doors or the gates that u cant open woth out a key. I cant go anywhere with out him watching me or following me. I cant evenbtake my dogs outsode with out him there or creeping around the corner or listening. Hes making things up in his head. He claims i was snaking my butt outside cause the neighbors are guys. But i was giving my dogs a bath outside. He also saying im talking / cheating when i am not doing nothing. Ik to the point where i just want to jump out the van while hes driving to just ened it all. He said i xant and wont ever leave him cause he will find me and kill me. Now hes trying to claim that im having relations with out basement neighbor guy because i took my dogs outside at 10pm so i didnt have a big mess to clean up in the morning. I dont know how much more i can take of this. So far its looking like its either he kills me or i kill myself

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Ravingstarfish · 22/05/2019 15:22

Oh sweetheart xx
Wait until he’s asleep or out and take you and your child to the police a&e or gp.
Ring women’s aid for advice and help.
I have been where you are and several years later my ex isn’t allowed to contact me or my child and life is good. You have a future, you need to get help ASAP though xx

Relaxing2 · 22/05/2019 16:44

Aww darling I feel for you I really do I hope you find help and get yourself out of this situation ASAP there is help out there

Ravingstarfish · 24/05/2019 08:33

Are you ok op?

JoMumsnet · 24/05/2019 13:36

Hi tabby1234itsmy3boys,

Sorry you're going through such a tough time.

When threads like this are flagged up to us, we usually add a link to our domestic violence webguide - please do take a look, as there are organisations listed which may be able to give you some support in real life.

Very best wishes from all at MNHQ Flowers

Mythreeknights · 24/05/2019 14:36

Is there anyone at all in RL you can talk to about this? You need to call the police or at least call WomensAid if you are in the UK.
www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/helpline/ their number is 0808 2000 247
Good luck and don't give up. Flowers

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