Hi,
Have named changed for this.
I took anti depressants for 2 years whilst going through a custody battle with my ex.
Have been off of them for a year - slightly more.
Since the end of last year my ex partner and his family have been stressing me out, to the point where i am now considering starting to take them again.
Ex partner (dds dad) was refused contact by a court. I have been offering contact with his side of the family - grandparents, aunt etc - they took me up on the offer. I intended it to be once every 2 weeks - this wasn't good enough for his mother, she kept pushing - which resulted in once every week, sometimes more.
Recently, she broke the boundaries - or rules as she calls them- that I had put in place.
She told her son where me and dd would be, and he turned up. Thankfully I hadn't got there yet, saw him outside and left.
Dd was crying and shaking in the car when she saw him.
She then called me, crying saying how she hadn't told him, it wasn't her fault and how her partner was going to leave her blah blah.
Met up with her - she proceeded to quiz my dd and Interrogate her over her dad; why didn't she want to see him, how he missed her - visibly upsetting my dd so I left. DD has said she doesn't want to see her anymore.
DD's dad hasn't even tried to get in contact with her - he's allowed indirect contact but hasn't bothered.
She has since called me every single day, left messages, turned up at my house - which resulted in me telling her to leave - after she tried to come in & was trying to get DD to cuddle her; DD said no and continued with no - so I backed her up and told her to leave.
I've ignored the call I received today, but listened to the voicemail - which ran like a "oh poor me" message and I'm now considering going NC & taking my anti-depressants again.
I don't want to go back to taking them though. I don't want to because of her behaviour.
WIBU to not call back? To stop her seeing dd? To not engage with her on any level?
I'm not even sure what to do - feel like I'm rambling 