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changing therapist due to existing one leaving.

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pygar · 12/04/2019 09:41

I have been seeing my therapist for about 10 months now. I have a great working relationship with them. Due to their own circumstances they are moving on.

They told me this at the end of my last session, and we will discuss where I go from here at the next session.
I will ask them for recommendations but I do know that locally many therapists are not taking on new clients. I contacted most of the local practitioners directly when I was looking initially and they were the only one with space.
I also really don't know how I feel about having to start all over again with someone new. I definitely feel that I need a break from therapy as moving directly from one to another doesn't feel right to me.

Has anyone else experienced having to change therapist?

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Orangecake123 · 14/04/2019 20:47

Hi OP.

I can understand the apprehension about seeing someone new, but I think you can make a lot of progress with the right therapist, as you already know what it's like and can dig deeper .

I am officially on my fourth therapist and have been with him for the past two years and 4 months. I didn't feel like I got anywhere with the first two and saw the first for maybe 5 sessions at the most. But with the third I could only see for two sessions.

Maybe you could ask your therapist for your notes which you could give to your new therapist. But it's okay to take a break if you want to.

Perhaps you could also try online therapy if you have no one available cclose by? I live away from home during term time, but see my therapist in person whenever I'm back in london.

EvaHarknessRose · 14/04/2019 21:04

Ending sooner or pausing before starting again can be more healthy. Discuss what is best for you and make the best ending you can.

pygar · 14/04/2019 22:02

Thank you for your posts!

My therapist is leaving in August and so I have a little time to work out what I am going to do. We have made a lot of progress and it may be that I don't need to move on to someone new at all - but I will explore this in the sessions I have left.
I really do feel that if I am to get another therapist that I will need a gap.

Online therapy could be a good option. I hadn't thought of that. I will look into it.

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