Hi,
My friend (who’s also my flat mate - since sept) is concerning me. I’m not 100% sure what’s up but she’s going out the flat a lot less, has been missing uni, has got very very snippy (especially at me - we have 4 of us in flat in total). When drunk (once) she was very very upset but apart from that is very closed and doesn’t open up. I have a lot of health probs as well as anxiety, and my other flatmate has BPD and anxiety so we talk about MH and feelings quite a lot. But she doesn’t like to talk about it (which is fine obviously). A few months ago she went on a few dates which kind of fell through and was down over it but she’s definitely got more down since.
I have tried talking to her about it but she brushes it off, and I don’t want to force it. But I don’t know what to do.
She is close with her family, but doesn’t talk about MH to them. Other than us, she doesn’t really have many other friends, apart from two who are awful to her.
I don’t really know what to do but every time I speak to her she is snippier so I think it isn’t improving and me and her other friends are concerned.
Any ideas appreciated, we really care about her but are a bit lost cx