Hi,
I don't know if I should see a GP or not about my feelings...
I have a great DS who is 3. He is the light of my life, demanding (probably just normally so, luckily he is very healthy and never caused us too many health related worries).
I never thought I would have children so the fact he is here and fit and healthy astounds me every day.
Then I got pregnant with DS2. We wanted DS1 to have a sibling, but I didn't enjoy being pregnant and spent a lot of my pregnancy worrying about how his arrival would effect my relationship with DS1.
Since he's been here, DS2 has been sick, on and off, and we have ongoing concerns about his development, he is 8 months old and not doing much, and he is very small. Today the health visitor agreed to refer him to a pediatric team so we can figure out exactly what is wrong with him, and then we can move on and hopefully get him moving (literally).
Anyway, where do my feelings come into all this? I don't feel like I have bonded with DS2, and I am tired of worrying about him. I feel down a lot of the time, and because he is so behind with his development, I don't take him out to baby groups, because I hate seeing what other, even younger babies can do.
My relationship with DH has been adversely affected. We argue a lot of the time, and little things that he does annoy me.
I don't know if I am depressed, or if I just need to get out more - find out what is wrong with DS2 and have some more social interaction for him and me.
I am concerned that if I do tell the GP about my feelings that they may decide I am an unfit mother and take my children away from me...
Thanks for reading,
(in case you're wondering, this is not my first post, I have just changed my name...)
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Depressed or just lonely and stressed?
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feelinglowmama · 10/07/2007 20:15
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