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I'm not coping, ADs not helping, advice please **TITLE EDITED BY MNHQ AT OP'S REQUEST**

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Batsypatsy · 02/03/2019 05:41

I've been taking Duloxetine for several months, I'm on 60mg. I don't think it's helping and don't feel myself, I feel like I've no feelings really, plus I don't sleep well on it.

I've tried many others in the past, none have helped.

Should I stop taking it? I've stopped in the past but very gradually and still had weird withdrawal effects, sort of a sharp noise or feeling in my brain, I can't describe it.

I feel helpless, nothing helps, my life is a mess, I can't work, struggle to get out of bed or shower or clean my teeth or go out. I have barely any friends, the few I have are busy. If I look for work I'll lose my benefits because then they'll think I'm ok again.

I've had counselling a few times and it helped whilst there but at home I just felt alone and useless again. I'm on the waiting list for more counselling but could wait months.

I've no care plan in place, just a support worker who only visits if I ask her to and I don't know how she could help.

I was offered a place on a mindfulness course but needed to drive or take public transport to get there which my anxiety prevented. I wrote to the mh team to tell them I couldn't attend and that I felt suicidal and now they've arranged a home visit next week. What can I ask them to do? Can they help in any way?

I feel like I want someone to take control of my life so I don't have to function any more, maybe lock me away in a hospital ... but that's not possible because I have a teenage daughter to care for.

My life is a mess.

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Batsypatsy · 02/03/2019 15:02

Has anyone taken duloxetine at a higher dose and found it helped?

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Numbinside13 · 03/03/2019 19:12

I'm on duloxetine 60 mg and quetiapine 50 mg at night. I can completely relate to the not feeling anything , feeling numb inside. Maybe it's the duloxetine. I don't really have any advice but want you to know that you are not alone. I would say, however, never to abruptly stop any ad's, I have done that before and I never felt so unwell. Maybe worth speaking to your mh team about adjusting your medication.

Batsypatsy · 03/03/2019 19:22

Thanks numb. I wish I didn't have to take them.

What does the quietapine do? Is it to help you sleep?

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